what he needs to.
Voice tone and speed of speech - Listen to President Barack Obama speak. There is a reason he was the first African-American president in the United States. He oozes charm and charisma. If you listen to his speeches you will hear how he has a deep voice tone. How he speaks slowly. How he pauses for dramatic effect. As his words get more meaningful he will get louder and his speech will quicken. He is in complete control of his words.
Only 7% of communication is done through words. People will only believe you have the desired attributes if you have the body language that goes with it. In fact, if you show good body language they will actually believe you have more positive attributes than you really do. My next book will teach you, in depth, how to achieve that perfect body language.
Chapter 7: Tricks to Creating Attraction
These are psychological tricks you can memorize to help to build attraction in the moment. If you develop the personality attributes that you read about earlier in this book, you will find yourself doing these things naturally. However, until then it is good to know what you can do in the moment.
Teasing - Teasing should be one of the main things that you should do upon meeting a girl. It manages to keep things fun, shows that you are not intimidated by her, and helps you stay aloof all at the same time. I cannot stress how important teasing is when interacting with a girl. If you remember only one thing from my Tricks to Creating Attraction, remember to tease her.
However, b e careful not to overdo it. I don't like to use teasing as a way to make a girl insecure. I like to tease a girl about things that aren't important, for example, being short. If I was teasing a man about that, it would make them insecure since height is considered manly, but since you are teasing a woman about it, it’s not something that will make her too insecure. Make sure to keep the teasing fun.
The takeaway - When somebody loses something, it makes them want it more. Usually, when you start hitting on a girl you send the message that she can have you. After you establish that you might be into her it's a good idea to take that away. For example, you could say something like "You're cute. It's too bad I don't date girls who have read the Twilight Books."
You can use the takeaway in more serious situations as well, but it is more risky. If a girl is acting inappropriate, make sure she knows it, turn your back and walk away. Tell her that it is over between the two of you. However, only use this when you already have a relationship with the girl. The less of a relationship you have with her, the less intense that your takeaway should be.
Passing shit tests - When girls are subconsciously trying to see if you really have the personality attributes from Base Attraction, they will throw out tests. They will say things to try to rattle you. For example, she might say "You know I don't even like you." after she has been telling you with her body language that she is very interested in you. She knows that a man with experience with women (Desired by Women) will know that she is lying. So if you see that for what it is, and react like the test that it is, she will become more attracted to you. A good response to that could be "I don't like you either, the only reason I am here is because I like to keep my friends close and my enemies closer." Say it with a cocky grin, so she will know you are not taking her serious. You will pass the shit test with flying colors, and you will subconsciously confirm to her that you have the attractive personality trait: Desired by Women.
Being mean, then nice - A famous version of this that is used by police is called good cop, bad cop. They are both cops, but after dealing with a mean guy, then being confronted so quickly with such nice guy, it psychologically makes the person being interrogated like the good cop much more than they would if they had
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