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never had to deal with the bad cop.
    You can use this yourself by starting off your interaction with the girl by being a little mean. Then a while later she will do something and you will say "Hey, that's pretty cool. I was wrong about you." Then you start being nice, and she will be ten times more appreciative of it than if you just started out being nice.
    Another way to use this is to fol low a guy who just tried to approach a girl by being too mean. If you talk to her after he does, it will be one of the few times being a nice guy will be attractive. The contrast will make you being nice seem so much better.
     
    Creating sexual tension - The best way to understand this is to watch how sexual tension is created in movies. Pay attention to how the sexual tension is built and what happens to create it. Usually it all leads up to the kiss. You don't want to just kiss her, you want to make her think you're not interested, then make her think you might be, then come close to kissing her. When your lips get close to her lips look at her cheek and tease her about a pimple, then back away. This will build great sexual tension, and make the kiss much better when you finally kiss her.
     
    Creating jealousy - Jealousy is a human emotion that is experienced by everybody. It is very powerful and can create very strong attraction. The key to creating jealousy is that it can never seem like you are creating jealousy or it will backfire. Creating jealousy is something that women are masters of, so why not use their own tools against them.
    A good way to create jealousy is to take a girl to a place where there are many more girls than guys. Take her to a place where you might get hit on by other girls, because there are no more options or because of some niche. This will create jealousy and make her like you more. It will also hit the Desired by Women attraction switch.
    Another way is to let her glimpse a text from a nother girl. When she asks about it say "It's just a friend." and change the subject. She will wonder about that text and it will create some jealousy.
     
    Be a challenge - One of the biggest things that nice guys do wrong is that they are never a challenge. They are always trying to please the girl. You don't want to be that guy. People appreciate things they have to work for, not things that are given to them. The harder she has to work for you the stronger her bond to you will be. Don't make it too easy on her.
    To understand the psychology behind this you need to understand that when somebody of lower status interact s with someone of higher status, they will constantly try to please them. They will try proving that they are of equal status, but a person of equal status wouldn't need to prove it. You want to act high status, so you want to be a bit of a challenge.
    There are many ways to be a challenge. When a girl ditches you, then texts you the next day to ap ologize and give you X excuse, don't text back immediately and say "It's OK, let’s do it another night." No, she just ditched you. Don't text her back for a day. Make her wonder if you are mad, or if you even care. The opposite of love is indifference, so the thing that will affect her the most isn’t getting mad. After that you can text her back, but when you text her back don't act mad, act like you had something to do as a backup, so you didn't really care. Indifference.
     
    Have a fault she can heal - Girls love to think that they can change a man. Sometimes they can, but you can use that desire to your advantage. It is the main psychological factor behind why chicks are attracted to assholes and badboys. They want to be the only person that the asshole is nice to. They want their feminine presence to change and soften him. They want the badboy to fall madly in love with them, and then with the power of his love for her he will change and become a perfect boyfriend. This is also the reason girls are usually only into badboys as part of a phase. When they