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terms are and realize who is truly the
victim; who is truly the murderer in this case.
    According to the online version of the
American Heritage Dictionary, (Farlex, 2011) a victim is; (1) a
person who is harmed or KILLED by another; (2) a living person or
creature sacrificed during a religious rite and; (3) a person who
SUFFERS injury, LOSS, and/or DEATH of a VOLUNTARY UNDERTAKING. In
the same dictionary, an “Accident,” is defined as: (1) an
unforeseen event or one without an apparent cause.
    A murderer is defined to mean, “Anyone
that commits the act of murder.” Thus, looking up the laymen’s
(non-legal, non-technical) meaning of the word murder, the American
Heritage Dictionary, (Farlex, Murder, 2011) defines the act of
murder to mean: (1) The killing of one human by another, especially
with premeditated malice; (2) To Kill Brutally or inhumanly; and
(3) to put to an end; to destroy.
    When reading the “Posting Wars,”
segments that follow in these chapters keep these definitions in
mind every time you read someone stating that Chiquita was also a
victim in all this and ask yourself, “Was she killed by another
person,” “did she suffer a loss and/or death to herself by a
voluntary undertaking?” Did she “Brutally kill another human being,
putting an end to his life?” To some, these questions may seem
childish or pedestrian to ask but as you will see in the coming
wars, the definition as to what truly is a “Victim,” is highly
skewed by those defending their murderous family member.
     
    The Posting wars Part
3
    Shortly after 10 am that morning, after
I woke up and began to read Mlive.com (the local news website), I
read the following article written by John Agar of The Grand Rapids
Press and instantly posted it on the site all the comments thus far
had been written on, the article read as follows:
    Woman, 21, to be arraigned on murder
charge for stabbing death of Wyoming man
    WYOMING -- Chiquita Renae Fizer, 21,
was arraigned today on a second-degree murder charge in Sunday's
stabbing of Jeffrey Scott Dryden. Fizer was ordered held without
bond at her arraignment before District Judge Steven
Timmers.
    Police said Sunday's killing appears to
have resulted from a domestic disturbance outside of Crosswoods
Apartments, 917 44th St. SW. Police responded to a 2:45 a.m. call,
and found the victim had been stabbed in the neck. He died at the
scene, outside of his apartment building.
    This of course did not sit well with
Chiquita’s family as a woman calling herself Lois Lane made the
first comment of the day by stating (remember everything is
word-for-word as it was spelled out by the authors):
    “ Wow i wasn’t going to
comment on here especially because of how embarrassing some of you
are acting! Everyone will have their own opinion about the
situation and nothings ever going to change. Instead of acting so
childish and arguing why can’t we just mourn! Prey for both
families and be civilized! I love my cousin with all my heart and
know as well as the rest of my family and our friends that she
would never do something of this nature. We can have all these
harsh words and point the finger but that solves nothing! Both
families have lost something and gained nothing! Arguing and
calling people murderers is not going to reverse the situation at
all. No one was there to know what truly happen mistakes are made
every day! You all are acting like she woke up in the morning and
decided to end 2 lives his and hers so instead of sitting here
arguing back and forth over something that’s not in NOBODYS control
on here is dumb and we should jus pay our respects and move
on!”
    Move on she says… even now as I read
these words by her again it infuriates me. Kind of simple minded to
think that one could move on, mourn so easily as if all one has to
do is flick a switch, and never feel the loss again. Never see the
visions of his face dancing around in our heads whenever we see his
brothers or sister, but I made