Instant Orgasm: Excitement at First Touch

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Authors: steve bodansky
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When most people think of orgasm they think of the graph created by Masters and Johnsonshowingfourdistinctpartsofthesensualexperience: excitement, plateau (arousal), orgasm, and resolution. These occur in the old paradigm wherein a person remains tensed up while being stimulated because they are waiting for the end goal of orgasm. But we ask, what really separates excite- ment and arousal from orgasm? This is key to the concept of instant orgasm. As we see it, people’s sexual response is completely subject to what they be- lieve about it—that is, how they view the experience based on what they have been taught and what they have seen others do. Most of what people, both men and women, have seen is actually the male orgasm. He tenses up, tenses up, tenses up, and then squirts, squirts, squirts, and then he can go no farther. How many women have ever seen another woman have an orgasm? Women base their own idea of what they think their orgasms should be like on the or- gasms had by the males they have been in bed with or have seen in movies or
porn films.
This has been a successful sexual response for men as it feels good, espe- cially the ejaculatory phase. The problem is that most women do not have this same ejaculatory phase. They do, however, have a greater capacity for feel- ing sensation then men do, as the clitoris has a higher concentration of nerve endings than does any portion of the male anatomy. The sole function of the clitoris is to experience pleasure. Many modern women are aware that their clitorises are where the action is. They either masturbate there or, when en- gaged in partnered sex, require their lovers to stimulate it. This is definitely a
step in the right direction, but we have noticed that most women are still try- ing to experience orgasm in the same way men do. They tense their bodies and hope to eventually come or even ejaculate.
We consistently get e-mails from women and some men (about their part- ners) who are concerned about not being orgasmic while having intercourse. We would have thought that the word had gotten around by now inform- ing women about how their bodies work and about the low percentages of women who actually have coital orgasms. We guess Dr. Freud had a bigger influence than we’d hoped in this arena. He stated that there were two types of orgasm, vaginal and clitoral, and that the vaginal kind was “superior” to the clitoral kind. This apparent misconception still influences many people’s thinking on the matter. Simply put, there is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm as there are no proprioreceptive nerve endings in the vaginal wall surface. Of course, through our teachings and those of others, a woman can learn to feel more and include stimulation of her clitoris in the coital act, thereby leading to an orgasm. It is not a vaginal orgasm. It is clitorally based, as are all female orgasms.
Many women feel inferior because they do not have vaginal orgasms, yet their clitoral orgasms really are the standard itself and these women just don’t know it. The Hollywood film industry—which depicts coitus as a fantastic sexual romp with the man on top, and then the woman, and then the man again—is promoting a fiction that has prejudiced women and men into think- ing that they should be able to duplicate this wonderful experience in their own bedrooms. Yet they fail to find the gratification that was promised.
We promise you something better, something real, and something that at first you will find mind-blowing: an orgasm that starts the explosion with the first touch. As we’ve stated, we think that eventually an EMO will be consid- ered the norm and that the notion of a woman imitating a man by going for the tensed-up, seconds-long orgasmic release will be in the minority. Then maybe men will be able to imitate the way women orgasm, thereby increas- ing their pleasure, too. This orgasmic eruption does not require a great deal of

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