ultimately settling on Pretoria, where Haldeman set up a new chiropractic practice.
The familyâs spirit for adventure seemed to know no bounds. In 1952, Joshua and Wyn made a 22,000-mile round-trip journey in their plane, flying up through Africa to Scotland and Norway. Wyn served as the navigator and, though not a licensed pilot, would sometimes take over the flying duties. The couple topped this effort in 1954, flying 30,000 miles to Australia and back. Newspapers reported on the coupleâs trip, and theyâre believed to be the only private pilots to get from Africa to Australia in a single-engine plane. *
When not up in the air, the Haldemans were out in the bush going on great, monthlong expeditions to find the Lost City of the Kalahari Desert, a supposed abandoned city in southern Africa. A family photo from one of these excursions shows the five children in the middle of the African bush. They have gathered around a large metal pot being warmed by the embers of a campfire. The children look relaxed as they sit in folding chairs, legs crossed and reading books. Behind them is the ruby-red Bellanca plane, a tent, and a car. The tranquility of the scene belies how dangerous these trips were. During one incident, the familyâs truck hit a tree stump and forced the bumper through the radiator. Stuck in the middle of nowhere with no means of communication, Joshua worked for three days to fix the truck, while the family hunted for food. At other times, hyenas and leopards would circle the campfire at night, and, one morning, the family woke to find a lion three feet away from their main table. Joshua grabbed the first object he could findâa lampâwaved it, and told the lion to go away. And it did. *
The Haldemans had a laissez-faire approach to raising their children, which would extend over the generations to Musk. Their kids were never punished, as Joshua believed they would intuit their way to proper behavior. When mom and dad went off on their tremendous flights, the kids were left at home. Scott Haldeman canât remember his father setting foot at his school a single time even though his son was captain of the rugby teamand a prefect. âTo him, that was all just anticipated,â said Scott Haldeman. âWe were left with the impression that we were capable of anything. You just have to make a decision and do it. In that sense, my father would be very proud of Elon.â
Haldeman died in 1974 at the age of seventy-two. Heâd been doing practice landings in his plane and didnât see a wire attached to a pair of poles. The wire caught the planeâs wheels and flipped the craft, and Haldeman broke his neck. Elon was a toddler at the time. But throughout his childhood, Elon heard many stories about his grandfatherâs exploits and sat through countless slide shows that documented his travels and trips through the bush. âMy grandmother told these tales of how they almost died several times along their journeys,â Musk said. âThey were flying in a plane with literally no instrumentsânot even a radio, and they had road maps instead of aerial maps, and some of those werenât even correct. My grandfather had this desire for adventure, exploration doing crazy things.â Elon buys into the idea that his unusual tolerance for risk may well have been inherited directly from his grandfather. Many years after the last slide show, Elon tried to find and purchase the red Bellanca plane but could not locate it.
Maye Musk, Elonâs mother, grew up idolizing her parents. In her youth, she was considered a nerd. She liked math and science and did well at the coursework. By the age of fifteen, however, people had taken notice of some of her other attributes. Maye was gorgeous. Tall with ash-blond hair, Maye had the high cheekbones and angular features that would make her stand out anywhere. A friend of the family ran a modeling school, and Maye took some