courses. On the weekends, she did runway shows, magazine shoots, occasionally showed up at a senatorâs or ambassadorâs home for an event, and ended up as a finalist for Miss South Africa. (Maye has continued to model into her sixties,appearing on the covers of magazines like New York and Elle and in Beyoncéâs music videos.)
Maye and Elonâs father, Errol Musk, grew up in the same neighborhood. They met for the first time when Maye, born in 1948, was about eleven. Errol was the cool kid to Mayeâs nerd but had a crush on her for years. âHe fell in love with me because of my legs and my teeth,â said Maye. The two would date on and off throughout their time at university. And, according to Maye, Errol spent about seven years as a relentless suitor seeking her hand in marriage and eventually breaking her will. âHe just never stopped proposing,â she said.
Their marriage was complicated from the start. Maye became pregnant during the coupleâs honeymoon and gave birth to Elon on June 28, 1971, nine months and two days after her wedding day. While they may not have enjoyed marital bliss, the couple carved out a decent life for themselves in Pretoria. Errol worked as a mechanical and electrical engineer and handled large projects such as office buildings, retail complexes, residential subdivisions, and an air force base, while Maye set up a practice as a dietician. A bit more than a year after Elonâs birth came his brother Kimbal, and soon thereafter came their sister Tosca.
Elon exhibited all the traits of a curious, energetic tot. He picked things up easily, and Maye, like many mothers do, pegged her son as brilliant and precocious. âHe seemed to understand things quicker than the other kids,â she said. The perplexing thing was that Elon seemed to drift off into a trance at times. People spoke to him, but nothing got through when he had a certain, distant look in his eyes. This happened so often that Elonâs parents and doctors thought he might be deaf. âSometimes, he just didnât hear you,â said Maye. Doctors ran a series of tests on Elon, and elected to remove his adenoid glands, which can improve hearing in children. âWell, it didnât change,â saidMaye. Elonâs condition had far more to do with the wiring of his mind than how his auditory system functioned. âHe goes into his brain, and then you just see he is in another world,â Maye said. âHe still does that. Now I just leave him be because I know he is designing a new rocket or something.â
Other children did not respond well to these dreamlike states. You could do jumping jacks right beside Musk or yell at him, and he would not even notice. He kept right on thinking, and those around him judged that he was either rude or really weird. âI do think Elon was always a little different but in a nerdy way,â Maye said. âIt didnât endear him to his peers.â
For Musk, these pensive moments were wonderful. At five and six, he had found a way to block out the world and dedicate all of his concentration to a single task. Part of this ability stemmed from the very visual way in which Muskâs mind worked. He could see images in his mindâs eye with a clarity and detail that we might associate today with an engineering drawing produced by computer software. âIt seems as though the part of the brain thatâs usually reserved for visual processingâthe part that is used to process images coming in from my eyesâgets taken over by internal thought processes,â Musk said. âI canât do this as much now because there are so many things demanding my attention but, as a kid, it happened a lot. That large part of your brain thatâs used to handle incoming images gets used for internal thinking.â Computers split their hardest jobs between two types of chips. There are graphics chips that deal with processing