pleased about that, particularly when her three-oâclock appointment turned out to be the pits. Sheâd been counseling Paul and Sheila Valente for five months. In their mid-thirties and married eight years, theyâd developed communication problems that were putting a definite crimp in their relationship. They both worked full-time at high-pressure jobs, yet they managed to spare an hour a week to see her. Sheâd always seen that as a positive sign.
Suddenly Paul decided that they were wasting their time. âI donât see any progress,â he announced the instant they were seated. Caroline was amazed heâd been able to wait even that long; sheâd seen the thunder in his eyes when she first greeted him back in the waiting room and knew that the clouds had been gathering for some time. âSheila goes to work. She comes home and thinks about work. Once in a while she remembers Iâm there, but for the most part I could be a picture on the wall. If sheâs not willing to make an effort, no amount of counseling will help.â
âI make an effort,â Sheila argued, as eager to fight as he, âbut each time I suggest we do something, either you have your own work to do or you want to work out or watch the baseball game.â
âThose are things that I enjoy,â he said, thumping his chest self-righteously. âThere are plenty of other times when Iâm doing absolutely nothing. Thatâs when you choose to open your briefcase.â
Sheila glared at the wall. âI see no reason why it always has to be me accommodating you, rather than the other way around.â She turned her glare on Caroline. âI have to time my getting up in the morning so that the steam from my shower will have gone by the time he reaches the bathroom.â
âThatâs not true. You need the extra time to fiddle with your makeup and try on three outfits before you finally decide what to wear.â
âI have to look good at work. Clothes and makeup are important.â
Sheila headed her own beauty-consulting service. Caroline had to admit that she always looked stunning. Not that Paul was a slouch. He was blond and good-looking, not overly tall but well built. He managed a large hotel not far from the Capitol, an enviable position for one so young.
âSee?â Paul asked. âItâs always work. When we finally manage to be free on the same evening, she doesnât want to go anywhere. She says that she dresses up every day and needs a break.â He turned to his wife. âWell, I need a break, too. I need a wife who tries to please me for a change.â
âYou want to be doted on. Paul, thatâs passé. Iâm not your mother. And do you dote on me?â
He snorted. âIf I started, thereâd be no end to it. Give you an inch and youâd take a mile. Look what happened with paying the bills. We agreed that weâd each take care of our own. Then one month you were too busy, so I gave you a hand. The month after that it wasââ he affected a whiny soprano âââYouâre so much better at it than I am, Paul,â so I did it again. Since then youâve just assumed Iâd do it.â
âI work, damn it. I face bills day in, day out.â
âWell, damn it,â he yelled, throwing his hands in the air, âso do I!â He turned to Caroline. âSheâs obsessed with her role as the working woman. I didnât ask her to work. We donât need the income.â
âWe do if we want that house in Silver Spring.â
â Youâre the one who wants it. Iâd be just as happy to stay in the condo we have here and look for a house when we really need one. Like when we have kids. But thatâs a whole other can of worms. When we were first married, we said weâd wait two or three years before having children. Then you felt that the opportunity to consult at