orgasm?
70% of women cannot orgasm in intercourse. What percentage of men do you think can’t orgasm in intercourse?
How grateful do you think a woman will be when you give her her first orgasm? Or her first orgasm in intercourse? Most grateful!
How can you tell if a woman is having an orgasm? For most women, it is very obvious. They sound and act a lot like you do when you come.
But some women are very quiet when they have an orgasm. They are not expressive for any one of a number of reasons.
And many women outright fake an orgasm with her man during intercourse. This is to avoid making him feel inadequate, but often times it is just to get the sex over with because she is bored and it is starting to hurt.
Never ask a woman if she has had an orgasm. NEVER. It is your job to know without asking.
The true test to know if a woman has had an orgasm, is to place the tip of your pinky finger in her anus. If she actually has an orgasm:
Her anus will involuntarily contract.
There are many types of female orgasms. The two most popular are the clitoral orgasm and the vaginal orgasm.
The clitoral orgasm can be achieved by rubbing her clitoris with your finger, or by licking her clitoris with your tongue.
The vaginal orgasm can be achieved by intercourse, or by using your finger or a dildo to rub the inside of her vagina.
For women who can have a clitoral orgasm but not a vaginal orgasm, they will see to it that their clitoris gets stimulated somehow. It allows them to have an orgasm during intercourse, but requires clitoral stimulation and results in a clitoral orgasm.
But all physically and mentally healthy women are capable of having both a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm, either separately or at the same time.
Do not let a woman’s previous lack of orgasms limit your determination to give her massive multiple clitoral and vaginal orgasms.
For women who do have orgasms, most of them had their first clitoral orgasm when they were little girls about age 6. Sometimes it was caused accidentally, such as from sliding down a pole or banister. Sometimes it was from the shower when the water hit her just right. Usually it was from just experimenting with herself.
The Clitoral Orgasm
Most women use their finger or a vibrator when they masturbate. They usually have a favorite way to do it that they have become very accustomed to.
You can masturbate her in the same way. It will always feel better when you do it than when she does it. At least if you do it right. Be secure enough in yourself to ask for feedback. Ask if you should go a little slower, or a little faster, a little higher, or a little lower. Watch her carefully to gauge her.
But the one thing that women just love is getting oral sex, when her man goes down on her. Cunnilingus.
Fish Lips Cunnilingus
For proper cunnilingus, stick out and stiffen your upper lip. This supports the clitoris from above. Then stick out and stiffen your lower lip. This supports the clitoris from below. And then lick the clitoris up and down with your tongue.
This supports the clitoris from above and below, and provides more stimulation, and thus a more pleasurable and memorable experience for her.
The Hummer
After you lick her to the point where she is very aroused, then you make your lips into an “O” shape, and you suck her clit into your lips. Then hum while sucking her clit in and out of your lips. Drives 'em wild!
The "Nip it in the bud" technique
This is a method of stimulating the clitoris by basically grabbing it between the tips of your forefinger and thumb. You hold the entire length of the clitoris between your thumb and forefinger and slide it up towards the patch and down towards the vagina.
Hold her labia open with the thumb and forefinger of your left hand, and then place the thumb and forefinger of your right hand on either side of her clit and hold as much of it between your fingers as you can gather.
Use half inch strokes in a direction up towards