males.
Another modern example of this idea is the sentiment that all forms of pornography (made for males) are degrading to females and that women in porn only do it for the money, a view shared by most feminists. The fact that half the actors in your averageporno production are males and that they too are paid to be there goes unmentioned. This does not need to be mentioned, because everyone knows that
males
enjoy sex. Those guys therefore have the best jobs in the world, unlike the females, who are only doing it for the money, right?
No. In reality, females in the adult entertainment industry make several times more money than their male colleagues, not because they do not enjoy sex or they really feel degraded on film, but because they need to be compensated for all that they have to put up with when they are
not
naked in front of the camera, that is, the social pressure from the rest of society, particularly from feminists, that comes as a result of their defying their socialization. Only females receive this kind of opposition when they refuse to conform to rules concerning their sexuality that are unwritten but are supposed to be followed. This is something that their male colleagues do not have to deal with, since males’ sexuality does not need to be controlled to the same extent.
The truth is that pornography is only degrading to females if one believes they are not supposed to enjoy sex as much as males do or that the value of females lies in their sexual exclusivity, as we are traditionally led to believe. Hence, a female who does not conform deserves less respect, and if you disagree with the notion that a female’s value lies in her sexual exclusivity, then you are disrespecting her if you treat her otherwise. This is nonsense. At the end of the day, pornography is rarely degrading to females but denying their sexuality always is, and denying their sexuality has done more harm to womankind than pornography ever will. Therefore, one might think that today’s feminists, who are supposed to fight for “women’s” rightful treatment, would actually celebrate those who defy the socialization that attempts to condemn their sexuality, particularly in the only industry in theworld where females earn a lot more money than males do for performing the same job. Instead, no other group on earth is as anti-porn as feminists.
By the way, it is interesting to note that what we call pornography in everyday speech is material that excites males primarily. “Pornography” is mainly
visual
depictions or suggestions of sexually attractive females, such as photographs of young, naked girls. The equivalent material for females is not the simple opposite. Females are less visually stimulated, hence the material that excites them comes closer to spoken or written descriptions of confident and charming grown males, which is why romance novels for females are full of detailed descriptions of such men. These romance novels make multibillion-dollar revenues each year but are not considered to be part of the adult entertainment industry. Most males do not realize that these novels are pornography too, as they are clueless to what attracts females and these novels do not bother the general public as much, since text does not ruin the politically correct idea of females as much as images do.
There are numerous more examples of the way socialization has instilled in us false beliefs, but the short of my point is that these two grand beliefs, that males have to earn females and that females’ sexuality must be controlled, alter the general behavior of both males and females on a very large scale. It literally makes the world go round.
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While all heterosexual males desire nothing higher than women as long as their basic needs are met, the way they are led to believe they are of less worth than females and that they have to earn them causes them to shift their natural priorities. Success,achievements, and money come first,