horror—all
mimed with reckless energy, to astound and delight me.
Her Creed
I believe
in the creation of
the criminal,
the evil people,
my mother says on her eighty-third birthday,
everyone born is a miracle.
How did I know I would have YOU,
she
cries out. “I don’t know what I would have done
without you, Mom,” I say, “I’d still
be out there, calling MA-ma, MA-ma!”
She laughs with delight. But she’s worried about cloning—
“When they clone
you,
Mom,” I tell her,
“I want one.”
I’ll put you on the list,
she says.
“I want the little kind, that I can
put in a high chair and feed Cream of Wheat to,”
I add, and she says,
I’ll move your name
up high on the list.
Over and over,
these days, she tells me they never will be able
to assemble real flesh, in a dish, not flesh
with spirit—the men cannot make happen
what happened in her body. When she dies, she wants to see
her father again, and put her arms
around her second husband.
Not a living
cell with a soul. Oh—but Science,
she sighs,
you know
—20,000
Leagues Under the Sea
!
“Let’s come back
and check on them,” I propose. “On your birthday,
in the year 3000, I’ll pick you up,
and we’ll visit this planet.”
What will you be driving?
she asks. “A goose,” I tell my mother.
“I’ll honk.”
Shave and a haircut,
she says.
They will never make flesh.
5.
Warily, Sportsman!
Now the vast dusk bulk that is the whale’s bulk …
it seems mine,
Warily, sportsman! though I lie so sleepy and
sluggish, my tap is death.
—“The Sleepers,” Walt Whitman
When she talks about caring for her beloved husband
after his stroke, I hold the phone
in the crook of my shoulder, where the heads of sleeping
infants have rested. She goes over the heartaches
again, the setbacks, the bad nurse—
the one who was not professional,
who did not understand he was not
responsible for the things he said about her
race and about her neighborhood.
Suddenly, my mother bursts out,
And my therapist says it COULDN’T have been my
kicking him, the night before,
that caused the stroke.
“Of course not,”
I say, “of course not. You, uh,
kicked him?”
He was sitting on the couch,
we were fighting about which cruise to take next, I could
TELL how small the staterooms were
by the plan of the windows, but HE wanted to go
to RUSSIA, I kicked him in the shin with my soft
sneaker. And my doctor says that it had NOTHING
to do with the stroke or the cancer.
I agree,
but a week later I stop short
on the street: my mother is still hitting and kicking people?
I know that soft sneaker. But when
she married again, I thought she’d stop hitting.
Or do people hit and kick each other
a lot, does everyone do it? Does each
family have its lineage
of pugilists? No one hit her back
until today—by-blow of this page,
coldcock to her little forehead.
6. Little End Ode
When I told my mother the joke—the new kid
at college who asked where the library’s at,
and the sophomore who said, “At Yale, we do not
end our sentences with prep-
ositions,” whereupon the frosh said, “Oh,
I beg your pardon, where’s the library
at, asshole”—she shrieked with delight.
Asshole,
she murmured fondly. She’s become
so fresh, rinsed with sweetness, as if she is
music, the strings especially high and bright.
She says it and sighs with contentment, as if she has
finally talked back to her own mother.
Or maybe it is the closest she has come,
for a while, to the rich, animal life
she lived with her second husband—now
I can see that of course she touched him everywhere,
as lovers do. She touched me there,
you know, courteously, with oil
like myrrh; soon after she had given me life
she gave me pleasure, which gave her pleasure,
maybe it felt to her fingertip like the
complex, clean knot of her Fire Girls
tie-clasp. She seems, these days, like a very
human goddess. I do not want her
to die. This feels like