did in that trailer.
âAfter Augusta we came home, right here to Latrobe, and pulled that trailer in my fatherâs backyard and parked it,â Arnold said. âAnd Winnie looked at me and said, âYou know how much I love you. Iâll do anything you want to do. But I will never go with you in a trailer again.âââ
There was a beautiful portrait of Winnie on a nearby wall, her hair swooped back. She looked like a Breck Girl.
âThe trailer never went again.â
Arnold looked right at us. The silver hair, the massive head, the creased face. This was not cocktail chatter. It was his life.
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I was struck by Arnoldâs coarse, plain language, by its Rat Pack cool and economy. His golf ball was âthat son of a bitch.â The old pro Dutch Harrison, a gambler, got Arnold into a big-bucks pro-am and wanted a âkickback.â The Hall of Famer Tommy Bolt âwas so bad.â A double-date fishing trip with Bolt and his wife, Shirley, ended with the two of them âthrowing knives at each otherâ and Arnold saying to Winnie, âBabe, we gotta split.â On the road out, they saw Boltâs own son âthumbing.â Regarding the successful Latrobe lumberman for whom Palmer had caddied as a kid: âI hung close.â He called himself âdumber than a rock.â (Fat chance.) When he made money in a Calcutta gambling game, he was âas happy as a dog going to a farting contest with six assholes.â His great college friend Bud Worsham was a âbad drinkerâ and Arnold had to âpull him out of ditches.â (Bud, along with a Wake Forest basketball player, died in a late-night car accident when Arnold was a senior.) Arnold got his âass kickedâ on the course by so-and-so. He remembered Bobby Jones once telling him, âIf I ever need an eight-foot putt for my life, youâre going to putt it.â For my life . They played for high stakes.
Mike asked Arnold if there was a party in Latrobe after he won his first tour event, the 1955 Canadian Open.
âNo,â Arnold said. âIt was quiet.â
You can see clips from that win in the Arnold Palmer Room at the USGA museum in the New Jersey horse country. It also has home movies of Arnold, Arnold doing a Pennzoil ad, Arnold holing out on the eighteenth green on Sunday at Augusta in â58, when he won the first of his four titles there. You can see skinny Ken Venturi on the green with him, warmly congratulating him. The scene, in black and white, has a certain timeless grace.
Mike and I sat there listening to Arnold checking off all these old names. I knew most of them, and Mike knew every last one. Dutch Harrison, Dick Mayer, Tommy Bolt, Billy Casper. Ky Laffoon, Porky Oliver. Gene Littler. Hogan and Nelson and Snead. The Worsham brothers and Skip Alexander. (Mike played golf for his son, Buddy Alexander, at Georgia Southern.) Ed Furgol. Harvie Ward. Fred Hawkins. Al Besselink. Mike and I once spent half a day with Besselink, a tour star from the fifties with a loaf of yellow hair. Bessie was a habitué of the South Florida golf scene but also well known at the betting windows at Gulfstream and Hialeah. Mike had been quoting for years something Bessie told us that day: âDonât date no brokes.â
âIâll never forget this,â Arnold said. âWinnie and I are driving from Baton Rouge to Pensacola. Weâre watching the car in front of us. All of a sudden sparks are coming out of the back of that car. Iâm watching. And I thought, Iâm seeing something that I donât understand .
âI pulled up closer to them and thereâs Besselink hanging out of the back door of the car, grinding a wedge on the highway. Thatâs what the sparks were.â
You could see it like it was in a movie.
âIt really happened,â Arnold said.
âAl Besselinkâs a crazy man,â Mike