Just F*ck Me!
literally whisks you off your feet with no warning, throws you on the bed and makes your every sexual wish come true.
     
    It’s really up to you. At this point, you literally only are limited by your imagination. There is nothing off limits. You have to discover exactly what that desire is all about.
     
    Once you know, now you’re off to the races. Let’s go over some tips for introducing the idea of your man being more assertive in the sex department.
     
    Showing, not telling, is a good way of getting to the point of talking about it, or at least to warm him up to the idea. An awful lot of good stuff can happen in the heat of the moment, and by introducing some rougher elements during your usual lovemaking you can open up the door to more assertiveness, especially if it takes him by surprise.
     
    This can include a variety of actions, which you can do or you can prompt him to do. For example, when you’re in the house, grab him, push him toward a wall and pin him there with a long, deep, passionate kiss.
     
    You can start in on some dirty talk, although this doesn’t have to be a full dirty conversation – at least at first! You can begin with something as simple as making him say your name. Then you can move onto almost anything that sets you ablaze. It’s best if you start the talk, though, and then ask him to respond or to repeat something you’ve said.
     
    Additionally, it’s better if you sound kind of like a porn star when doing this. A bit breathless is good, a little bit of a moan here and there. Lots of “baby” and “making me hot” thrown in there can go a long way.
     
    Then, when he’s become comfortable with the level of discourse, shall we say, you want to move into giving direction. If you’re doing it doggie-style, you can tell him to spank you. Tell him to hold you down. Tell him to give it to you harder. If a guy thinks he has a good chance of really seeing you explode into ecstasy, he’ll take the direction like Pavlov’s dog, as long as it’s not too far out there at first.
     
    A combination of showing and telling is also good. Say you want him to pull your hair; you can pull on his, then say, “You like that? Yeah? No? That’s what I want you to do to me. Pull my hair, yeah, just like that.”
     
    Another good tactic to try is to get him really hot and bothered with a lot of teasing and then lie back and say, “Have your way with me” or “Do with me what you will.” If you make him hungry enough and then let him have free reign, he’ll be all about the alpha maleness at that point.
     
    However, examples like these, at least in the beginning stages, all have to do with you giving direction. And while that can be empowering, in the end, you really want him to take over and be the assertive one who comes up with all these ideas on his own.
     
    The way to make that transition is to talk about what you’ve already been doing in the bedroom once you’ve started introducing these more aggressive elements yourself. However, this does not have to be a governmental debriefing! Make it hot, and he’ll respond with exactly what you need from him.
     
    THE ALL-IMPORTANT VERBAL CUES
     
    Post-coital conversations are a good place to start talking. Recall the specific things he did to you – even if they were prompted by you – and reinforce how much they turned you on. If you feel like this might be awkward, pretend to yourself that you’re describing your favorite parts of your favorite film, or a really delicious part of a wonderful meal you have had.
     
    To further reinforce this, you can send text messages or emails at random times: “Still thinking about that spanking! Yummy!” Or, you can set up a dirty date between the two of you, and say that he can have his way with you tonight. Again, little messages are good for relaying this, as talking it to death is going to make the two of you too self-conscious to be able to enjoy it.
     
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