does something amazing for him as well. When you hum or moan, the vibrations from your mouth are sent cascading through his penis and eventually through his body. This gives him an extra form of stimulation that will send shivers down his spine.
4. Have fun . The biggest rule of them all during handjobs, blowjobs, fingerjobs or whatever you two might get yourselves into, is to have fun. If you aren’t enjoying yourself, then he certainly will pick up on that negative energy and he won’t get any pleasure out of it. The more into it you are, the more into it he will be. This makes the connection between the two of you all the more special and stronger. Sex is fun so oral and hand play should be fun as well.
By keeping these NEVER do’s and ALWAYS do’s in the back of your mind, you are setting yourself up for constant success in terms of hand play and oral play. Even if your man starts getting a bit randy and wants you to maybe use your teeth, remember that it is never a good idea. Once you start doing something, you have to outdo yourself in the long run to get that same satisfaction and that is for a whole other topic on a whole different day. (BDSM, baby!)
As the final tip suggested, it is important to have fun. Sex and pleasing one another is a great time to bond and to get closer together. It is a pleasurable experience to give your man pleasure so by having fun with it, it means that you are doing it in the right way and it will better your relationship.
Chapter Seven
How to Master the Art of the Deep Throat
Alright handjob and blowjob professional, here it is; the moment that we all have been either waiting for or waiting to avoid. With a guide on how to give your man an amazing blowjob comes a topic that we have to discuss and that is the art of the deep throat. You now partially know how to give your man a blowjob akin to something out of the best porn you’ve seen but now you need to take it a step further; now it’s time that you really blew his mind.
Deep throating is a topic that might make a lot of women cringe. Some women just can’t keep a handle on their gag reflexes and the last thing they want to do is to ruin a great blowjob by not being able to keep their lunch down. Naturally, this is a cause for concern and the fact that the gag reflex does exist is enough to make women steer away from this sex act and rightfully so. It can be really nerve wracking being pushed to your limit and having absolutely no control over what happens next. However, it doesn’t have to be this way. There are ways of combating the gag reflex, teaching yourself how to get into the right mindset and even tips and tricks that you can use and buy that will help you to overcome this obstacle and give your man amazing pleasure. Even if you think that you are destined to fail and that it may be impossible for you to make this happen for your man and for yourself, give this chapter a read before you come to any conclusion. You can’t fail unless you give up so with this glimmering hope that you may have, let me corrupt you to the dark side and each you how you can master this art in no time at all.
The biggest tip to remember when attempting the deep throat is that you have to relax. The more tensed up you are, the more tensed up your entire body is making it extremely difficult for you to let go and to allow your throat muscles to relax. Of course, there is a natural tendency for us to stop anything from going down our throats that we don’t want there, so this is certainly a mind over matter situation that needs to be addressed. You have to get into the right frame of mind before you can even attempt any of these methods. Perhaps meditation might be a great way for you to learn how to calm your body down, especially your throat. Practicing meditation might help you out in a huge way. It’s worth a shot.
The next big tip is that practice makes perfect. The more you practice relaxing those