safe.
These are classic Louise Hay–isms. I repeated them over and
over again, and slowly but surely my sleep spells decreased. I got
into medical school and graduated with an M.D. and a Ph.D. I
never would have been able to do this without affirmations.
I’ve had my share of ups and downs with my health over the
years. (Haven’t we all?) Each time I had a down, I’d turn to con-
ventional and integrative medicine. I’d also take out Louise Hay’s
book, and I’d use medical intuition to find the imbalances in my
life. This combination always did the trick.
This is how I stay well. Medicine, intuition, and affirmations.
It’s also how I help other people.
Recently, the spine problem that started when I was 12 began
to escalate. I started to list forward like the Leaning Tower of
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Pisa—I stood at a 70-degree angle, always facing toward the
ground. The surgeons I saw in Phoenix, Arizona, said it was
straight back syndrome, a complication of the extensive scoliosis
surgery I had had nearly 40 years before. I couldn’t walk very
far or lift my arms. Intuition told me to reevaluate the structure
and support in my life, and I did. I looked at my purpose with
the help of spiritual advisors and friends. I also worked with a
Chinese acupuncturist and qigong master, but all these remedies
only took me so far.
I still wanted to be able to walk. The surgeon said that an op-
eration was necessary or I’d be in a wheelchair. So on February 13,
2012, I went to the operating room—and almost died when an
abnormal vein blew during surgery. Medicine again saved my life.
The surgeon stopped the bleeding, resuscitated me, and fixed my
spine, making me three inches taller. And he gave me back my life.
I would love to tell you that medicine alone—so neat, so tidy,
so rational—was the saving grace. I was in the ICU for more than
two weeks and in the hospital for four weeks: let us say recov-
ery was tricky. But now I’m better than ever. So what was it that
brought me back? Of course, in the hospital, I used medicine. And
I used intuition to figure out how to strengthen my body and cre-
ate balance in my life. I relied heavily on affirmations to change
my thoughts. And believe me, they needed changing! This is how
you heal the whole person. How you create lasting health. Medi-
cine alone wouldn’t do it, and neither would intuition or affirma-
tions. Only a balanced approach holds the full promise of healing.
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Chapter 4
We are faMIlY
The First Emotional Center: Bones, Joints,
Blood, Immune System, and Skin
The health of the first emotional center depends on your feel-
ing safe in the world. If you don’t have the support of family and
friends that you need to thrive, you will see this insecurity mani-
fest in your blood, immune system, bones, joints, and skin. The
key to enjoying health in this center is balancing your own needs
with those of the meaningful social groups in your life. Family
and friends, work, and an organization to which you are devoted
all take up time and energy. But they are also meant to give back,
in the form of friendship, safety, and security; they should provide
a sense of belonging. These are all reasons human beings seek out
other people and groups. However, the needs of the group should
never be allowed to overshadow your own needs—particularly
your health.
When you are not getting what you need from relationships
or activities on which you spend considerable time, your body and
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mind will start to tell you. At first the signs may be as simple as
fatigue, skin rashes, or joint pain. Mild problems in the first emo-
tional center can serve as an early-warning system, letting you
know when you have gone