really into sports.â
âWell, this will have to change here. Everyone is into sports. Besides, you and our athletes share one thing in common: you donât need to worry about grades. The piano comes first, and the school understands that.â
âUnderstands . . . as in fewer classes?â
âNo, as in flexible curriculum. There are easier courses whose sole purpose is to give students like you a break: Physics for Poets, Rocks for Jocks. Those two should get you through the science requirement, unless you hate geology.â
I wanted to ask what she meant by âstudents like meââI was not a jockâbut we had already reached the restaurant. The place turned out to be much pricier than I had expected. Its glass wall overlooked a sidewalk patio directly on Nassau Streetâthe main shopping and dining artery that divided the north end of campus from the town of Princeton. Once again, I regretted not having done a simple Internet search. When Donnellyâs e-mail had mentioned lunch at the Blue Point Grill, I had glossed over the name, unaware that in America the word grill signaled upscale ambience and thirty-dollar entrées. Now she, of course, fit right in with a brown pantsuit and coral brooch pinned to the lapel, while I sulked next to her, hoping that my black jeans and turtleneck could pass for edgy college chic.
âMrs. Donnelly! We were starting to worry that you had forgotten us this week.â
The waiter showed us to our table and I tried to decipher the menu while the two of them exchanged pleasantries. It was a maze of seafood dishes, referring to at least a dozen kinds of fish I had never heard of before. When she ordered the sea bass, I asked to have the same.
He grinned in my direction. âMay I interest you in any of our delicious starters?â
âExcuse me?â
Donnelly sensed that I needed help. âWould you like a soup or a salad, dear?â
âNo, just the main course would be fine, thank you.â
I was going to need quite a few restaurant trips in America before a meal would stop being an exercise in embarrassment. Luckily, Donnelly didnât seem to mind. She loved the place, calling it her âweekly indulgence,â but I found it hard to believe she had the means to come here so often. Back at home, my family went to an upscale restaurant only on special occasionsâtwo, maybe three times a year. Most other families could afford even less.
âSo where were we?â She unfolded the napkin and placed it in her lapâanother American custom. I copied everything she did. âAh, yes, classes and grades. The bottom line is to manage a decent GPA. It doesnât have to be great, just decent.â
âI need higher than decent to keep my financial aid.â
âThatâs the last thing you should worry about, especially with reviews like the one you just received. Your campus job, on the other hand, is a bit of a problem. I heard theyâve assigned you to the dining hall two nights a week?â
âI donât mind working.â
âItâs not a question of whether you mind. There are only so many hours in a day, and you canât be washing dishes while you should be at the piano, practicing. Have you talked to anyone about it?â
âMy award letter said this was part of everyoneâs package, no exceptions.â
She frowned, taking off her jacket and pulling up the sleeves of her beige blouse, as if to prepare for a battle with the food that hadnât been served yet. âFirst of all, it isnât everyone âonly those who canât pay their own way. And second of all, there are always exceptions. The whole thing is absurd anyway.â
âWhy?â There was nothing absurd about earning pocket change when you needed it.
âBecause somebody took a great premise and flipped it on its head. With the ton of money they are giving you each year, do you