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menstrual blood passes. Some women love to have their cervix pounded; others hate it. Be careful not to bruise or abrade your cervix.
I love my cunt, for sure—the way its lips pucker, the way it hungers to get some. My cunt and I are partners in crime! Arrest us for being too hot!
    The vagina isn’t a passive receptacle. The opening of the vagina is quite muscular. Surrounded by the pelvic muscles, the vagina will contract with pleasure, gripping a finger, dildo, or hand.
    G-Spot
    The G-spot is named for Ernst Grafenberg, an ob-gyn—but let’s think of it as the girl spot. Since Grafenberg, Beverly Whipple, Deborah Sundahl, Carol Downer, and many others have discovered so much more about the G-spot and its role in pleasure and orgasm.
    The G-spot isn’t a magic button, but rather an area of tissue that feels a bit rougher in texture than the rest of the vagina walls. You can find your G-spot by inserting a finger into your vagina and making a “come hither” motion toward the front wall of the vagina. The G-spot is actually the urethral sponge, or corpus spongiosum , an area of tissue surrounding the urethra, which runs along the front wall of your vagina carrying urine from the bladder to the urethral opening. (The urethral opening is located below your clit, just above your vagina.) You can also think of the G-spot as your female prostate; like a man’s, it plays a role in ejaculation.
    Some women ejaculate with G-spot stimulation; some ejaculate with clitoral stimulation. Some like G-spot stimulation, but don’t ejaculate. And others find G-spot stimulation too intense to be pleasurable. (More on the G-spot and ejaculation in chapter 4, Orgasm.)
    Perineum
    Between your vagina and anus sits a small area of connective tissue, the perineum. A lot of women like pressure here during penetration, and licking or nibbling during cunnilingus. This tissue is also somewhat elastic—it stretches during childbirth to allow passage of a baby’s head. During her pregnancy, Susie Bright discovered that “perineal massage” recommended by her childbirth preparation teacher was much like fist-fucking. “I could see why immediately,” she wrote. “A hand going inside my pussy is a little like a baby’s head trying to move outside into the world. How exciting! For the first time I felt a surge of confidence about my chances for a successful labor.” 9
    Anus
    The anus is a very sensitive area, ripe for erotic play. In Victorian porn, it’s called the “little rosebud.” Made of delicate tissue, rich in nerve endings and blood vessels, the anus is quite responsive to sexual arousal.
    The anus is guarded by two muscles—the external sphincter, which consists of voluntary muscles (you can flex them), and the internal sphincter, which consists of involuntary muscles (they seem to open and close according to their own will—like blinking—though with practice you can learn to relax these, too).
    The anus is short, just an inch or two long, leading into the rectum, which is about 4 to 6 inches long, and ending in the rectosigmoidal junction, the opening to the sigmoid colon. From there, the colon leads to the intestines. The rectum offers no equivalent of the cervix; there’s no stopping point. Things really can get lost in there, so precautions are a must when inserting an object into your anus. Dildos and butt plugs must have a flanged base (bigger at the base than the top), and insertive toys, like anal beads, must be securely fastened to their strings.
    The tissue of the anus engorges with arousal and is quite expansive; you can fit a finger, a dildo or penis, a butt plug, or even a whole hand inside your butt. The lining of the anus and rectum is very, very delicate, and will tear easily—another reason to be extremely careful in choosing insertive anal toys and to always use lube.
    In biological males, the prostate gland, located on the front wall of the rectum a few inches from the anal opening, responds to