with clarified butter. He picks up hobbies like I do new shoes. I had the sudden, wretched sense that perhaps heâd turned his hobby attention toward . . . me.
Hadnât raising five children been enough? What if I wanted to take time off? maybe eat out of a box for a change or, egads, not fix dinner?
A little niggle inside made me wonder if perhaps he might be feeling the same twist of panic over our long stretches of silence.
But signing me up for a new job wasnât the answer. Didnât he know me at all? Couldnât he see that while I could organize my army of offspring, my leadership talents ended there?
For a second I experienced the very mean urge to put his name down for sculpture class at the Community Art Colony.
Heâd probably love it.
Dancing! I could sign him up for dancing lessons. . . .
As far as the hospitality committee and the Christmas Tea went . . . âWhat do you mean by broken? Have you even been to a tea?â
Mike smiled. âNo. But I notice you donât attend every year.â
âI donât like meatballs.â
âI donât think youâre the only one.â
âWhat do you mean by that?â
âI just think that maybe you could make this the best Christmas Tea ever.â
In the back of my mind, I heard a memory ringing. I swept the dust into a tiny pile as it came to me. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever âit was a book Iâd read aloud to the children when they were small, about a woman who breaks her leg and the victim who must take over running the pageant. As I recall, it turned out to be a catastrophe.
The comparison didnât bode well for my future. I swept the dust pile into the garbage can. âWell, I havenât heard from God, Mike.â
âHave you even considered that He might have a plan for you in this?â
âA plan to saddle me with making coffee cake every Sunday for a year?â
Mike took the broom from me. âMaybe thereâs more to the word hospitality than cooking up potlucks and serving coffee.â
I knew, of course, that had to be true. After all, the Bible wouldnât say such things as âOffer hospitality to one anotherâ if it didnât have merit. Eating together had been a common activity for the early church and for every decent church since.
The significance of this eluded me, however, especially as I called the committee meeting to order the next day at high noon.
Gretchen, Rachel, Muriel Schultzâwho was a distant cousin of Gretchenâs and the head of the Knitters Clubâand fellow hospitality newbie Jenni Simpson, who also led the Motherâs Day Out group, had dropped everything to attend our hastily arranged meeting.
According to my wall calendar, I had just over five weeks to pull together our tea. I had started to grasp why the menu had remained unchanged for decades. With the timing of the new committee chairs, the deadline rolled in too quickly for a new chairperson to spice up the event.
That, and the iron fist of Gretchen Gilstrap left no wiggle room. She had everything spelled out, down to seating arrangements, and when she thumped a box down onto the table in front of me as we began the meeting, a chill streaked up my spine.
âIâve put it all together in a file box for you, including the recipes, past menus, past prayers, and the array of hymns we use.â She took off the lid to reveal hanging files, all colorfully organized. Once upon a time, Iâd dreamed of such organization in my home office.
âYou should call the newspaper about ten days beforehandâthey have the usual copy and just need your go-ahead. And Jane needs the hymn lineup soon so sheâll know what to practice. And . . . when youâre ready, Iâll bring over the Christmas china. Itâll need to be hand-washed, of course, but Iâll be there to help you.â
Christmas china? I scrolled back