wrench in the gears.
“I know,” she said again. “I know.”
I let her off the hook after a couple more seconds of
icy quiet. “How are you feeling?” I asked as I set Steve’s
bowl down before his little head exploded from the
waiting.
“Owie.”
“I’ll bet. Pain meds helping at all?”
“If I take extras, they do.”
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“Yeah, well, be careful of that,” I warned sternly. “e
last thing we need is for you to become a Vicodin addict or
something. at stuff can mess you up.”
“Hey, you know what would make me feel a lot
better?” she asked, her voice softening. “Some of those
triple chocolate cookies you made around Christmas time.
Remember those?”
A few minutes later I poured myself a glass of
Cabernet and donned my favorite apron, a simple black
one with brightly colored spatulas all over it that Grandma
bought me at least ten years earlier. Pulling mixing bowls
and ingredients out of cupboards, I set to work making
cookies for Maddie.
My love of baking comes from my grandmother. I
know it. She was a practical woman stuck raising her
daughter’s child, not something she ever expected to be
doing, I’m sure. She was fifty-five when my mother took
off and left four-year-old me with her, an age where she’d
been thinking about retirement, not how to entertain a
small child. She wasn’t the kind to play catch with me or
teach me to ride a bike (though she managed to do the
latter), but she made a mean chocolate chip cookie, among
other sweet confections. I still remembered shards of the
very first time I helped her. I must have been five or six and
she was working at the counter. I slid my little chair over
and stood on it so I could see what she was doing. Once I
was quiet enough, she simply began giving me
instructions. “I need an egg. Be careful with it.” “is is a
sifter; just pull on this handle until all the flour goes
through.” “ere’s a bag of chocolate chips in that
cupboard. Grab it for me.” And that’s how it began. It was
sort of unspoken, but that ended up being the quality time
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I spent with Grandma and it didn’t take long for me to
grow to love it. Cookies and cakes were her way of
showing me love, because I think she was so frustrated and
disappointed in her own child, she didn’t know what to say
to me.
So we baked.
I sometimes thought how weird it might have seemed
to somebody looking in from the outside. Somebody who
didn’t know, who wasn’t there during my childhood. But
Grandma took care of me; she clothed me and fed me and
put off her own retirement so I could go to a decent
college. She wasn’t terribly verbal in the emotions
department, but I knew in my heart that she adored me,
and if the best way she could show me so was to bake me
an angel food cake with marshmallow icing, that was good
enough for me. I loved her right back. And as will happen
with things that are handed down within a family, baked
goods became a tool for me to show my love as well, at
least in some cases. In other cases, I just like to bake. It is
my cure-all. I bake when I am stressed out. I bake when I
am sad. I bake when I am ecstatically happy. I bake when
I’m nervous. I don’t know why. Something about the focus,
the way I can concentrate on measuring and sifting and
stirring just helps to relax and calm my frayed nerves. Very
few problems in life can’t be made at least a teensy bit
better by a mouthful of cookie dough.
I finished up the last batch and left them to cool on a
wire rack while I did up the dishes. It was late, but
Grandma always hated to wake up to a sink full of dirty
dishes, so I always clean up my mess even if I’ve been
baking at three in the morning which is not unheard of.
After wrapping up a package for Maddie, I took a cookie
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for myself, along with the essential glass of milk, and Steve
and I headed to