fighting for any military. The only one I could ever see myself joining would be Old Navy, and thatâs just because their sweatpants are comfy. Second, I grew up in America. Sure I spoke Farsi, but my reading and writing of the language was and is at the first grade level. I donât know what kind of a soldier Iâd make if I couldnât even read the signs. âMines to the left, water fountain to the rightââsuch a sign could result in very serious repercussions for me. I donât know how you spell âminesâ nor âwater fountain.â I would hate to leave this world trying to drink water out of an improvised explosive device. Also, what would happen if one of the commanders wanted us to chant, âWe hate America! Death to America!â Out of sincerity I would have to raise my hands and offer my opinion. âSir, not all Americans are bad. Youâre rightâsome of them are real bastards. Still, I donât wish death upon anyone. Can we just say, âBad karma to all bad Americansâ? Thatâs more my style.â
Visiting Iran made me realize that I wasnât as Iranian as I thought I was. In the United States, I didnât feel American enough, and in Iran I didnât feel Iranian enough. Somehow when strangers would see me in the streets they would know instantly that I had come from America.
âHowâs life in the United States?â
âHow do you know I live there?â
âYouâre wearing Leviâs five-o-one jeans. We donât have those here.â
âYou donât have jeans?â
âWe have the five-o-twos. The five-o-ones are so 1998.â
Being in Iran after twenty years was bittersweet. On the one hand, it was great to see Tehran and its beauty. Itâs a bustling city surrounded by the Alborz Mountains. It could really be a beautiful place were it not for the overpopulation and pollution. Obviously, under the current regime thereâs also a lack of basic freedoms. Thereâs a lot of fear instilled in you, and you feel like youâre being watched even when youâre not. This made me very paranoid and forced me to walk around the streets with my hands up, constantly saying, âI didnât do it! Whatever youâre thinking, I did not do it!â By the end of the second week I didnât trust anybody. My dad would come by my room at the end of the night.
âGoodnight, Son.â
âGoodnight? What, exactly, do you mean by âgoodnightâ?â
âUm . . . just goodnight?â
âOr maybe you mean I should go to sleep so you can look in my diary to see if Iâve written anything against the regime.â
âSon, I donât vork for the regime.â
âSure you donât, Dad. Sure you donât.â
When I went to visit it was the month of Ramadan, so we were supposed to fast during the daytime. None of my siblings or I are religious, so we werenât fasting. The only problem was that when we were out, we didnât want to be caught sneaking food. We would wait until we were in the car, and my dad would pass back cookies, which we would hide in our fists and eat surreptitiously, trying to look inconspicuous. I felt like an idiot, a grown man sneaking bites of lemon cookie with a vanilla cream center. They were deliciousâdelicious and blasphemous at the same time. I wonder what kind of deity cares if you have a cookie during holydaylight. Is there such a god? Itâs a shame how people can take a religious message and turn it into something so silly. I shouldnât have to feel guilty eating a cookie. Cookies are good whether youâre Muslim, Jewish, or Christian. The only people who hate cookies are vegans! And even they have nondairy cookies.
Two weeks in Tehran during Ramadan was like being in junior high all over again. We were nervous eating our cookies during the day. We were nervous walking with our sister in the
Breanna Hayse, Carolyn Faulkner