to accept his blindness and get on with his life.
Broderick worked six days a week. When he wasnât taking orders by phone with his braille machine and dictating them to his secretary later, he was making house calls at night. He quickly developed a very keen audio sense; many customers he dealt with on the phone were astonished when they finally met him. Heâd quickly call out their name when he heard their voice. Until that point they had no idea he was blind.
Later, when he and his wife were having childrenâseven in allâBroderick would tell each of them the same story as they reached the age when they could understand the real meaning of blindness. His daughter, Katy Broderick Duffy: âHeâd tell us how he was hurt in the war and that when he came home he went with his mother to Lourdes, the famous shrine in France, to pray for a miracle. He said that before they put the water on his eyes, he asked the Lord for a favor: âIf I canât have my eyesight back, could you find a girl for me to marry?â And thatâs how he met my mother. When youâre little and you hear that story, you really think it
was
a miracle.â
Broderickâs wife, Eileen, is a little skeptical of the story, but Tom insists itâs true, although his version is a bit breezier. âI said, âI know we donât always get what we want, but whatâs right for us. Iâm really hoping to meet the woman for meâand if you want to throw in the eyes, too, thatâs okay.â â
Tom Broderick, feature in the
Chicago Tribune,
1944
Not long after that, Tom and Eileen met on a blind date, no irony intended. Eileen was a twenty-three-year-old nurse and Tom was twenty-seven. She fell in love instantly. âThat night, after the date, I went home, woke my cousin up, and said, âIâve met the man Iâm going to marry.â She told me Iâd been drinking too much and I should go to bed, but I knew.
âYou didnât think about his blindness. It just didnât seem to matter. He was so unique. He ran a business by himself and didnât need help from anyone, although it was a little tricky when we went out alone. Iâd have to take him to the menâs room and ask someone to take him in. Iâd stand outside. I think, being a nurse, I was a little more flexible. I understood that it was all just mechanics.
âMy father was worried when I said I was marrying Tom. He just didnât understand how Tom could take care of me and a family. But after three or four years of marriage they became very close. Tomâs mother started him off right. When he came back from the war she would not allow anyone to use the word
blind
in the house. Tom had to be treated with dignity and respect, and anything he wanted to try, he could do it. When he left his fatherâs business to set out on his own, she was happy.â
Tom and Eileen had common roots as strongly faithful Roman Catholic Irish Americans. They settled into a life of the prosperous middle class on the south side of Chicago, where Tomâs business continued to flourish and their family grew quickly. During one five-year stretch Eileen had five children, and then another two later. Eileen says, âHe was very involved in their upbringing. There were things he could do and those he couldnât. It was kind of trial and error. He couldnât change diapers but he could give them a bottle. We never talked about how to make things work. It wasnât easy, but we did what we had to do.â
The Broderick children were part of the equation of making things work. Daughter Katy says, âThe blindness was just incidental. Iâd see other people who were blind and not well adjusted and think, âWhatâs wrong with them?â Later I realized not everyone had the strength and determination of my father. When I was little, my friends would say, âYour fatherâs not blind!â
Skye Malone, Megan Joel Peterson