intelligence â but stallions can be unpredictable, so I treat him with extra respect.
I wonder if Robbie might want to get on with something else, but he stays, chatting with me and Mel. A few minutes later, an older version of Robbie, not quite as tall and with shorter hair thatâs greying at the temples, joins us with a tray of tea and biscuits. He places it on the roof of the Toyota, out of reach of the dogs, who are waiting for me to make a start.
Mel introduces me to Neil, Robbieâs father.
âI never thought Iâd see the day.â He removes his rimless specs and wipes them with a handkerchief from the pocket of his pale cotton trousers, before putting them back on so he can get a better look at me. âIâm not sure this is a good idea. Women shouldnât be shoeing horses â itâs dangerous. Iâd hate to think that one of our horses had hurt someone.â
âGive her a chance,â Mel says. âShe knows her stuff.â
âExcuse me,â I say, speaking up. âI am here.â A certain amount of curiosity is acceptable, whereas blatant sexism isnât. I still find it weird that when I was working in an office environment after my degree, there were all kinds of rules as to what constituted sexism and sexual harassment, but when I was out and about with Tony and the male apprentices, demeaning and lewd comments were encouraged â and the smuttier the better.
Robbie glares at his father. âThereâs no need to look at Flick as if sheâs an alien. Women can do anything they choose nowadays â you know that. I trust Melâs judgement.â
âIt wasnât my intention to offend, but if I have â¦â Neil is well-spoken and in his fifties. His fraying blue and white striped shirt appears to be from the same era. Smiling apologetically, he reaches out for my hand.
âI find your opinion patronising, but Iâll forgive you.â We shake hands. âYou men are all the same.â
âWeâre what?â Neil says, his eyes narrowing to slits.
âSheâs winding you up, Dad,â Robbie says.
âOh, I see.â
âI think weâve all been guilty of sexism at one time or another.â
âIâve been harassed many a time,â Mel says. âWhen I was an apprentice, a lady owner slapped me across the rump for walking behind her horse without letting it know I was there.â
I canât help smiling. Iâve been guilty of harassment on a small scale too. When I was in my teens, we had two farriers. I classed the boss as ancient â as in, about the same age as my father. His assistant was in his twenties, shy and handsome, and I used to fancy the chaps off him. He used to drink every mug of tea that I brought him until he must have been brimming over. My mum took every opportunity to put him down â he wasnât good enough for me because he was âonly a blacksmithâ. I was destined for Maximilian, who played polo; even though, as I pointed out to her, he was clearly gay.
Robbie turns to me. âWhat made you want to shoe horses anyway?â
âOne of my first memories is the sound of the farrier on my parentsâ farm.â I recall the clank and hiss of hot horseshoes being dropped into water to cool, and the tapping of nails being hammered into the horsesâ hooves. âWhen I realised I was going to die of boredom working in the corporate world of sales and marketing, those memories returned. From then on, I didnât want to do anything else. I resigned from my job, applied for a pre-farriery course and never looked back.â I pause. âIâd better get on.â
âYeah, sure. Go ahead.â
I approach Nelson and give him a pat. I pick up his forefoot and start to remove the shoe. It sounds painful to the uninitiated, but itâs attached via bevelled nails, usually seven of them, to the wall of the hoof, where there
Bohumil Hrabal, Michael Heim, Adam Thirlwell