a small château, Royallieu, in the department of Oise, and it was here that Gabrielle now traveled with Etienne to begin a new life.
While Adrienneâs cohabitation with her lover must have shocked her sister Louise and the rest of their family, Louise would have appreciated Adrienneâs discretion and, one hopes, been unprudish enough to rejoice at her sisterâs good fortune. Gabrielleâs situation, however, was rather different. We donât know whether she hid her new life from her family for a time and was subsequently found out, or whether she told them immediately that she was going to live openly with a man out of wedlock. (As so often, it wasnât quite so much what one did but the way one did it that mattered; discretion counted above all.) Years later, when Gabrielle came to tell of her installation at the château of Royallieu, despite garbling the truth to throw her audience off the scent, one catches a hint of her misrepresentation, which clearly provoked considerable family disapproval.
Gabrielle told how she had run away. She said that her grandfather in Moulins believed she had returned to Courpière; that her aunts thought she was at her grandfatherâs house; and that, finally, someone âwould realize that I was neither with one nor the other.â 6 Although nomadic, and at the lower end of the social scale, the Chanel family would have been quite aware that (unlike Adrienne), Gabrielle was jettisoning any chance of a good name by going to live at Royallieu. 7 Here she was not alone: her new loverâs family regarded him as its black sheep.
From an early age, Etienne Balsan, a most sympathetic character, was both easygoing and provocative, habitually unsettling his family. They put his intermittent irritability down to the fact that he often starved himself so as to keep his weight down as a jockey. (Etienne frequently rode as the only gentleman rider with the professional jockeys.) When he wasnât working hard, one of Etienneâs favorite pastimes was courting women. Then he was relaxed and amusing, with a famously caustic wit. Women responded to his cheerful demeanor, and were seduced by his lack of romance and unflinching confidence. One of his stable lads, describing him as a champion jockey, said his only criticism of Etienne was with regard to women: âHe focused on them too much. And it tired him out, sometimes.â When he mistakenly gave Etienne the benefit of this opinion, he was called an âidiot,â and Etienne informed him: âItâs no more tiring than riding horses!â
As a man of respectable pedigree and great means, Etienne could afford not to care about status. He had the freedom to do pretty much as he pleased, something very few women were permitted to any degree. Indeed Gabrielleâs arrival at Royallieu to live with Etienne Balsan had made her entirely disreputable in the eyes of contemporary society.
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During the second half of the nineteenth century, under Louis Napoléonâs Second Empire, Paris became associated with an ostentatious theatricality and a luxuriant, new kind of spectacle. Louis-Napoléonâs mission was to promote his countryâs magnificence and superiority to the world, and in this he was assisted by his urban planner, Georges-Eugène Haussmann. This promotion of magnificence in turn contributed to a period of feverishly self-absorbed luxury. Gratification was the imperative, and entertainments of all kinds proliferated. Many of the now famous great restaurants and grand cafés appeared, as did sumptuous new theaters and concert halls, playing nightly to packed houses.
Another form of entertainmentâprostitutionâalso grew dramatically. At the end of the century, about a hundred thousand women plied their trade to a Parisian population of just under three million. 8 At that time, Paris had one of the most highly organized and regulated systems of prostitution in